Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Paper Thoughts 11/18/11
When everything is broken and you have nothing left it's hard to say "just repair it all." It's just so much easier to buy all new stuff so you can just start over again right? But what if you do not have the resources to just buy everything back? Would you be forced to repair it or leave it all damaged and work with what you have because it is unable to be repaired? For me, I am just going to walk away from all the broken things in my life and create things that are unbreakable. Love is breakable, hope is breakable, trust is breakable, feelings are breakable, almost everything in life is breakable, but if I made myself unbreakable then only relied on myself I would not need all of those terribly breakable things like love, trust, friends. So I need to remove all of those thing in my life because they are already broken. There's hardly such a thing as love anyways. I'm definitely not one of the fortunate ones who will find it. Will ruined the words " I love you" for me and too many friends have back stabbed me. That was the first time and the last time I will ever say those words. When I asked him if I could simply talk to him he said no, so I am guessing he is not too worried about getting back together. Why did I even bother trying? What was I thinking? That he would suddenly become nice or want to take me back? It's funny how all I can remember is the good times we had. I wish I could remember the reasons for the bad times so that I could feel hate for him in the end. I would go back out with him if he wanted to.. if it's not him then really it is no one for a very long time. I will become one of those girls that you hear about that never even tries to date anyone and never worries about guys or sex because I am too busy worrying about my education and self improvement. I do not want to have sex with another guy to be honest. It just does not seem appealing to me at the moment. But I do still love him because I do not give up that easily on love, but what do I do? Tell him? I already tried doing that. So I guess there is not much left I can do but start a new life. Am I really giving up that easily though? I always say I hate when people just throw away love without a fight. So I am not sure yet if I can give up. When I think about never kissing him again, never hugging him again, never seeing his family again, never being "his" again, it makes my heart tremble. I think I have to try at least a few more times to talk to him and let him know what I am thinking. I will never know what could have been if I do not try. I don't care if it is something breakable that is what makes being with him so beautiful. It being breakable makes it of interest. If everything was unbreakable and dependable life would be pretty boring, but at least you would be safe and undamaged right? Every little step you took would not be so terrifying because you know it can not break. But when you finally get to the end of your journey and get what you want, will you be happy knowing it was so easy to get? No the victory would not be as sweet because then any one can just have it also. It makes you feel accomplished to know you made it somewhere even with the difficulties. Now I get it!! Without struggle there would be no gain! That explains why I feel like I HAVE to try to get Will back. He's the only breakable thing that is worth getting hurt from, because if in the end he is still mine I win and the scars from being hurt will become my battle scars. The victory would not be a victory at all if I could just have him whenever I wanted.
So my final decision is that I will try a little harder. If he loved me at one point I can make him love me again right? of course we would have to work on some things but I am willing if he is.I'm just not sure if he has already moved on and forgotten about me. What if he is happier without me? Maybe he even likes someone else, I kind of thought it seemed like he liked Nicole when we were dating. Ouch another heart pain. He probably does not even care that we broke up. Wow sometimes I cheer myself up then other times I depress myself. I hate the night time because then when I am laying down I have nothing to distract my mind. All I end up thinking about is him so then I stay up instead of sleeping.
So my final decision is that I will try a little harder. If he loved me at one point I can make him love me again right? of course we would have to work on some things but I am willing if he is.I'm just not sure if he has already moved on and forgotten about me. What if he is happier without me? Maybe he even likes someone else, I kind of thought it seemed like he liked Nicole when we were dating. Ouch another heart pain. He probably does not even care that we broke up. Wow sometimes I cheer myself up then other times I depress myself. I hate the night time because then when I am laying down I have nothing to distract my mind. All I end up thinking about is him so then I stay up instead of sleeping.
Don't remind me (poem)
Some times I can't stop to think
for fear of missing anything within a blink
I just jump to action
out of whim hoping to win
because when I journey into thoughts
my heart remembers and painfully rots
it resurrects deep hidden pain
so I avoid thinking just to keep sain
for fear of missing anything within a blink
I just jump to action
out of whim hoping to win
because when I journey into thoughts
my heart remembers and painfully rots
it resurrects deep hidden pain
so I avoid thinking just to keep sain
Paper Thoughts 10/19/11
I hate when I can see the pain in someone's eyes. It makes it feel like you are right with them in the pain. You fake a smile to make them feel alright when really you're not sure you are really alright. Would someone who never cares what anyone thinks always be calm? Sometimes I can not help but just WONDER what people think about me. What kind of image do I give off to others? I only really care what I think about myself as a person but I am curious as to what people think about me. It is funny that they can say things about me as if they know me but no one will ever fully know me, except for myself. No one could ever have me all figured out because they are not in my shoes and do not see through my eyes. Even if they think they have me all figured out that is just their own ignorance to assume that. I have this whole other side of me that no will discover. It's the side of me that comes out when I write or in my mind. Never is it left open so that others can use it to their advantage. It stays in secrecy because it is safer that way. Maybe if someone could actually gain my trust then take the time to get to know the whole me they would then know exactly who I am but I doubt that will ever happen because people are not interested in discovering the lives and views of other people.. no no no they are more interested in making money, sex, drugs, material objects, or television shows.
I still feel like I am not being all that I know I can be because I am a slacker. The thing is I do not really want to try just yet because I am worried about other things like writing and blogging. I can't completely change my life all of a sudden, it takes time. I have seen some big changes this year and I should be pretty proud of myself but I am still not content because I know I can be doing better. They were fairly easy changes though, like going to school more often, getting straight "A"s, and stopping almost all the drugs. But I am still behind compared to where I should be in life at this age. I should have a job by now, have my permit, have a car, have more advanced classes, have a better GPA, and I should be looking for ways to get into colleges. If I would not screwed up my first two years of high school things would be so much easier for me right now. Too bad I did not know this sooner. I can not go back to my freshmen year and fix it so now all I can do is try very hard to repair it. I feel like life is a game of cards, the hand you play determines everything. Maybe I should treat it like chess and think about every move carefully and clever. Think one step ahead before I make my move. I wish I had an answer for everything but I do not. I only know the answers to the things I have been through so they will increase through every problem or situation, only good thing that comes from bad is a lesson.
I still feel like I am not being all that I know I can be because I am a slacker. The thing is I do not really want to try just yet because I am worried about other things like writing and blogging. I can't completely change my life all of a sudden, it takes time. I have seen some big changes this year and I should be pretty proud of myself but I am still not content because I know I can be doing better. They were fairly easy changes though, like going to school more often, getting straight "A"s, and stopping almost all the drugs. But I am still behind compared to where I should be in life at this age. I should have a job by now, have my permit, have a car, have more advanced classes, have a better GPA, and I should be looking for ways to get into colleges. If I would not screwed up my first two years of high school things would be so much easier for me right now. Too bad I did not know this sooner. I can not go back to my freshmen year and fix it so now all I can do is try very hard to repair it. I feel like life is a game of cards, the hand you play determines everything. Maybe I should treat it like chess and think about every move carefully and clever. Think one step ahead before I make my move. I wish I had an answer for everything but I do not. I only know the answers to the things I have been through so they will increase through every problem or situation, only good thing that comes from bad is a lesson.
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